A particular guide for those who does want to find the good girl on EM but not get involved into scam.
Here is one special, independent and extraordinary point of view for curious people of a dating online issues.
I must admit that this is a review of a man’s point of view, tips to thumb up for rules how to find your love within Elena’s Models site. In spite of various objections or questions I am more than confident about life of slavic people and life in eastern europe in general, therefore you may guess I simply know and understand the scheme of the way of searching for single women on dating sites. However I emphasize that this is only my opinion which is strictly based on the whole experience of mine got from years but something is not to correlate with the real things for you. Mail-order bride market and what would be useful for me if I were you.
Take your intuition with you, you discernment is your powerful ability to detect the necessary things and to neglect unnecessary.
So these are my tips for you below:
- Language, of course!
I met my wife suddenly and unexpectedly when she did not know English at all and she started to teach it because of me. By mentioning this I mark that language issue does not make any sense. And in some way it has negative attitude within a correlation of the whole image of a woman and English language to be a foreign. It goes without saying that being Western, you stand for feminism ideas accordingly. The second point is frequency of English usage: knowing this language affords to travel as much as possible, to make contacts with many foreign men what corrupts ladies and makes them less tend to stay at one place with extreme desire to love, to get married and to have a family.
- Yep, religion.
While observing the profiles pay attention to the religion indicated there and look for N.A. they may have. Next stage is to find a “soviet girl” who keeps running forward with a post soviet torch smelling of greatest past, materialism, unity and equality. A kind of extensional philosophy: you may try to handle somewhere in the middle of ethical humanism and relativism. Be good, babe but if not I’ll nail you to the wall. Still the priority is in convincing and in self-significance.
- Personal message sending.
Yes, you are Sherlock Holmes, you estimate and mark every word you see here. In particular, positive phrases that expose something interesting with “I am looking for” but not “I can offer”. Find such adjectives that can give a concrete description of the personality, not to be a unit of the whole list and that’s all. That’s if you want to marry a real person but not cosmo girl.
- Smoking cigarettes.
Sure she mustn’t. The thing is about behaviors, such a deviant behavior gives a particular clear way for allowing other disadvantages. Referring to the Bible book remember that if you trust anyone for a small thing you may trust for bigger ones. Smoking of course is a small thing in chain, such a small disregard of the health. By any means you may help her to rescue, but there are lots of others who can be in greater need.
- The Color Of The Hair.
I bet brunettes are the best, like my wife does. And my preferences of course. But my notice – those women who dye a hair into dark tints tend for bad habits and behavior. That’s cool if the colors are natural but check the way they do that, with no drama. Going deeply to the USSR I remember black haired women who made themselves black haired after Natasha Fatale (ref. Boris and Natasha cartoon). Sometimes art denotes the time line of the reality and draws the path.
Our personality takes a certain value and size within environment we live in. Not to be severe necessarian I’m trying to explain my notice: if to compare Western and Eastern part of Ukraine, they differ, and women differ as well. And it seems to me that Western women are sweeter, there are more villages there. And on the contrary industrial cities gives a push into development of the personality, who survives and used not to be opened to a world. And not the variant of a lady suddenly moved to a megapolis and dreaming of love escaping with some daddy.
- Children: yours and hers.
One of the most important issues of life to consider. My position is to find someone who has kids in case you have your own kids. But if you don’t – look for someone with no ones. If a woman has no experience in marriage and child bringing it’s not so bad, at least she has motivation to explore this lifestyle. A story is sad if a couple did not born and raise a child, this comes to the conclusion that they may have some mess with judgement and commitment. Child should have two parents and probably this is the criteria for me while you are looking for your woman. This is your decision to take a responsibility and of course we all make mistakes in our life, but while you reading profiles, screen the information about children and I would not advise you to have a woman with no child if you have any.
- Her response rate.
No use of considering this aspect very meaningful for you. No one cares how often and now many replies she sends, females have no reason of their actions and thus you would not have any profit to analyze that statistics.
Be calm with accepting image editing software: women are to be photoshopped, I must say 100% beautiful, airbrushed, tasty. Each of them want to be distinguished and represented on a market in their perfect way, this is normal for a woman – to get her attention. Look for professional pictures, also good but more truthful than processed ones.
- Profession, Interests.
Subject of no avail due to Soviet education system, it was classic and no doubt gave lots of knowledge. But is has no connection to moral integrity each of well-educated woman may represent.
For me – irrelevant as no connection to the real life. However there is exception for those you mark magical thinking as a lifestyle. But let me emphasize that men less or even do not take this stuff seriously to compare with women who pay great attention to this in early 70s.
Below I will try to give a respond to the main question of EM to be a scam or real and some useful strategies for proper using this service.
Please read my words carefully: this is not a scam.
Looking for a proper information about the company, let me mention that Elena Petrova, known as Elena Gold = Elena Solomon is a founder of Elena’s Models company. It seems to me – she is good and fair business owner of A Mom and Pop dating online service, placed in Australia, in particular: at Robina Town Centre, QLD 4230. They use anti-scam filtering for breaking scam attacks from poor countries. You must think about that imagining people praying for others but rich and noble. Indeed I do not have any common with the staff of with the agency in general however I’m a constant follower of theirs. For example if you take the average number of US dating companies EM is much cheaper with unlimited emails. Referring to my guess all various ripoff complaints are the result of austerity work of competitor sites. I made a contact to the agency and here is the pricing:
- Gold membership (unlimited emails + 50 contacts) = $16.50
- Platinum membership (unlimited emails + unlimited contacts + constant mobile contacts) = $83 per month
- Use some links for vk profiles to reach the necessary info. By the way, as for me, I used to pay for what I’m gonna use, legally. I buy legal services online, software and all.
Finally my pros and cons for this post goes to positive view: you have a big advantage in EM to screen the profiles as much as possible and it excludes any particular scam for you. And what is the disadvantage you may ask. Only one: there are multiple free dating sites everywhere. And for me – quality is in priority, I would not be cheap concerning serious aspects of my life, I mean, love, a partner for life, future relationships, marriage and etc. Supposedly I would join right in case I would search for a CIS bride and here are lots of them. Probably I would choose more religious dating sites, Catholic for example, as I’m interested in something specific theme but not more generic like I see Elena’s models agency.