About Uadreams Matchmaking Agency

My Updated Review

My greatest thanks to Amon who are embarrassed with his issue and requested me to manage some facts about Uadreams, all my material is completed into one big review. Take a sit and read carefully, I’d like to have your attention please.

So let’s start with the invitation men get from Uadreams. Here we should mention that Amon received the invitation as well and today his guess is a scams. We’d like to help Amon to make a decision to accept it or to avoid, probably this is a sophisticated maneuver for devastative results.

Let me tell you some words out: Amon experienced really negative attitude in previous dating sites therefore today he do not expect identical repeat. Indeed mostly free dating sites have the same platform of communication, liking each other’s profiles and no barriers for sending introduction letters. Some other sites with fee-paid base need confirmation that you are a human but not a bot. Once upon a time Amon met one pretty lady and she attracted him a lot and they began to communicate. But he had some doubts due to multiple scam facts around russian and ukrainian sites so he started to monitor with google via her pictures. Finally he found several pictures of hers on four different dating sites like Brides, russian-dating and etc. Can you imagine to face with real scammers and fake profiles everywhere? That awkward moment when you realize that you’ve been communicating with someone who was playing games with you, huh?

Do you know the next stage of such pernicious “relationships”? A woman requests private information for direct communication, therefore she adds some magic words to get man to trust and ask him to help her with the money of course as she is so poor little thing.

Brides.ru gives the opportunity to find any woman of any type for communication and our Amon was a member of this site. He made his search easily to choose the parameters he liked and started to communicate with one woman. He liked photos and information in the profile so she interested him a lot. Few months later he received an invitation from this lady to another website with the reason to continue their dialogue there. Below this is a standard example of UaDreams invitation letter from a lady to her man.

———- Forwarded message ———-
From: Uadreams support team
Date: Fri, Dec 30, 2016 at 2:48 PM
Subject: Amon, Olenka from Ukraine invited you to the International Matchmaking Agency!
To: Amon
Welcome to the International Matchmaking Agency!
Dear David You’ve been invited to http://www.uadreams.com at the request of
[image: Olenka from Merefa, Ukraine girl pictures]
Olenka from Merefa, Ukraine
*Your account information *(it will help you to see photos from all ladies in our database):
login: xxx
password: xxx
*Any your questions will be answered in our* Support
Centre
: +1 (315) 849-4959
Skype phone account: *uadreams*
*No one can know where he will meet his love!*
You can login here: http://uadreams.com/login.rpx
If you think it was done in error then just ignore this message.
Sincerely,
Uadreams Members Support Team.”

People know that it is better to verify URL in the letter if you receive a new one from unknown organization. Actually this is a subject to consider. Here we see sup_nadiya. No connection from the first sight with the name Olenka and Nadiya – both names are Russian or Ukrainian, whatever. Anyway this is a big hint for a scam Uadreams provides for their members. Or possible this was a id tracking of a supervisor or anyone from the staff. Was it the regular mailings?

Amon wanted to clarify the situation thus he requested me to assist him for this issue. Indeed that wasn’t the news for me and I knew the reply for url – actually as Uadreams explained me that is the id for supervisor fixed for several ladies of the general support of the agency. They assist women for each important issue like incoming messages or invitations, this staff provides them with the translation of letters, video chat texting, manages photoshooting, assist a woman during a meeting with a man.

Not every lady is able to maintain her profile (even if she has several of them on different sites – you can ask your woman directly) and verify all messages accordingly that is why full service is in need like Uadreams offer to all single Ukrainian women who do not speak English (from now and German) language well. For breaking all doubts Amon has I advice him to try video chat with this lady, put her detailed questions and look for feedback. I’m sure everything will be OK.

Amon refers to 6.99 dollars per letter Uadreams put on the website. He emphasizes that uadreams.com was a non-free dating site and it’s really expensive to be updated with letters and stay in touch with a woman. Per months it’s approximately 3.000 dollars and the amount per years was more than obvious he thought.

He considers the better and cheaper variant to come to Ukraine and search his future wife by himself. Well, who knows, may be this will take you years and years and supposedly your budget wouldn’t be ready for that.

But let’s be specific with the service you pay $6.99 for. Indeed this is the payment not for one letter from you to a woman translation but the translation of the woman’s reply as well. Thus this is for two letters as well. Think about those women who still do not speak foreign language and need translation help. Besides, as I see on uadreams.com they offer special packages for those who’re texting frequently, like 3.99 dollars per one email if you buy 100 emails. I think that’s really good offer and appropriate opportunity to try his chances with his woman. Let’s wish him luck!

Update January, 17

Hello, people! I am ready to keep the subject with you. I know that dating online is not a sweepstakes, it’s a different kind of lottery and I think that here my role is to specify where is a scam not to face it suddenly.

We came back to Amon, he is a member of Uadreams today after accepting the invitation from Olenka.

Moreover Amon was very pleased and satisfied with communicating with Olenka, they enjoyed video chat most of all and even once they held video conference so that Amon was surprised to hear the voice of his woman. But one thing confused him. Once he received two replies from his lady but on the same last letter. It seemed like one letter was written by completely another woman and the signature was Olyechka. He requested to investigate the issue and I with great pleasure tell you how the things are going on. The thing is Olya (that is full name of the lady) decided to come and answer the last letter of Amon but when she returned home she changed her mind and decided to rewrite it. So she dictated her letter by the phone but to another translator who wasn’t aware of previous reply that had already been sent. So he made his translation and sent the letter. Thus no additional money mere charged from Amon. Head management accepted their mistake with human factor of new employee, took measurements and are deeply grateful for this notice. Olenka is the same like Olyechka, both are variant of name Olga. So there is nothing to worry about.

Update February, 17


Hi everyone! I’m glad to tell you that we have another topic today. Nalvin is our next guest who agreed to share his concerns. He also is a member of Uadreams however, he had joined just recently. But he was extremely astonished by the intensity of female replies. It seems like they receive immediate notification and have the opportunity to reply to all customers. As Nalvin noticed response rate of almost 100%. This thing is suspicious as Nalvin didn’t consider himself a perfect candidate for husband for all ladies. I must confess that he is quite right with his theory and as for me I do accept the scam hint. However, that wouldn’t be the problem if I had known a plenty about Ukrainian women. You see, they are SO marriage-oriented the more I know about women from Uadreams, they simply do not miss any chance to find the right man for marriage. To use any safe site that promise them careful services usage and translation assistance and security of course. So as you see this is not a scam!

Red point is the picture in dating site. Uadreams has wonderful well-designed website with vivid platform and regular technical support that is why it is necessary to admit that they do their best to make perfect contain. So they provide their single ladies with professional photoshooting! Of course, you may seem this outbursting as it’s cheaper to buy some photos of modelling agency. But one more time I underline I know that Ukrainian women are really beautiful! It doesn’t matter what age she is: student or senior she can be admiring! She looks wonderful on photos but professional photoshooting make the product to look commercial, to attract men and to coincide with the site design. Besides the latest update I’ve seen on the site was introduction video – it helps to see a woman in all her natural beauty, her walk and moves are real!

I want to mention “success stories” Uadreams post and update periodically, those stories are about couples who matched each other, moreover there are many testimonials from couples married recently. Sounds optimistic! Isn’t it? You may search your woman each day and this process would last forever but Uadreams will give you a possible chance to find other half.

Nalvin liked Uadreams shop as well, he liked it much as he used to pamper a woman and this is important to do that on a distance. Sure it is possible to find the right service in the Internet. But Nalvin agreed that the price for the third party service is rather convenient for him. As he understood that staff does a lot to make the delivery, to offer the proper gift or to find alternative.

Fact: if you want something that is not indicated on the website, Uadreams will find it for you and instruct you with the pricing. Fantastic I think! A big surprise for a lady!


Uadreams business model.

What is interesting that various business models depend on customer’s need. As I see, Elena’s Models dating agency prefers fee payment for the subscription. The price is not high. However it’s up to you how many acquaintances you’ll manage to make for the period of time that is limited. If you wish to continue, buy more time for membership. Uadreams gives another scheme: you pay for separate service but the registration is for free, besides they give some bonuses to try and to make a decision to stay as a member or to remove profile from the system.

I need to say that Uadreams is most probably the one of those sites that have contradictory reviews. Among positive ones with most satisfied testimonials and feedbacks on forums we see negative ones like “Uadreams is a complete scam”, “extracted money”, “deceivers who offer fake profiles and to pay for emails”. Moreover people are afraid of perfect designed interface, their suspicious attitude can be explained by the wave of general dating scams everywhere concerning Russia and Ukraine.

I like to discover disadvantages you know. However I do like to focus on advantages!

Yes, I may agree about pricing. However they offer free membership with bonuses, packages and offers. Online platform works really well, they used powerful plugins that provides all members to hold video chat sessions and immediate letter sending. Besides you are able to monitor which ladies are online or are about to be.

Gallery of ladies is a base of real not fake women who are single, the staff explained that they provide verification of all documents and after the interview they may confirm the registration. Thus, as you see, you have a deal with real Ukrainian women, not bots.

Update

Good day to you all, people! I want to start with new message from Paul about Uadreams.com.


“Hello Dearest,
Supposedly I may hope that you would please me with direct and honest answer including the truthful advice to be a member of uadreams.com or to leave it immediately and stay away for years.

The case is that I choose several girls there and had good correspondence and chat with them. By no means they are not fake – that warms my heart haha) There is one russian social network odnoklassniki.ru. So one day I managed to find my lady there, I tried to contact with her but she left me without a reply, then I’ve been blocked. I am afraid this is a standard scam story. But I really like her and probably there is any chance for any investigation. How do you think? Do Uadreams let their women be on other sites? Or just luring all men to their non-free base? If uadreams is 100% scam I would appreciate if you could share my drama through all possible sources to warn other people.

Sincerely,
Paul.”


Dear Paul, I thank you for being honest. As for the situation. let me remind you my post previously where I described the supervisor position of the Uadreams staff, this is their job to assist female membership. So there is nothing wth scams here. Besides as I understood agency cannot force women to register or not to register to other sites, Ukrainian female intentions mpress with intensity and strong will to get married. So females are everywhere. However, Uadreams warns them about danger on other sites and they do not give guarantee of safety and confidentiality. There are so many fraudsters everywhere. Uadreams verify all information about the lady and check social network accounts manually. So there is nothing to worry about for Paul. Sure they do not let to give personal contact info but this is according to their anti scam policy. If a woman lures men and asks for money, agency would remove her from the system the very that day. Be thankful for those who accurately cares about your security.

Update

Attention of everyone: Uadreams warns the scam to be for free!

Dating statistics shows that in average two or three person from 10 have ever used dating apps. Today we have more opportunities to make our dating online research more comfortable, therefore no barriers for doubts. It is fast and easy besides day after day people consider it one of the modern ways of communication and family building with no shame as before.

Like millions of social portals dating apps give a prominent hope of effective result. But you should remember: those apps should be non-free as you need to have regular technical support for navigation, messages sending and reading, images viewing, chat holding and etc. There is no other way to perform it to you for free! This is a job for thousands technical developers. The easier the app is the harder their job is. Dating software today is being maintaining via many dating sites and it’s really good that Uadreams is among them as well.

Do not let fraudsters and scammers follow you. And do not let your greed sweep the board.

Some aspects Uadreams want to warn everyone:

  • Fraudsters know the effective power of stolen beautiful pictures
  • Fee communication is used to start by girls first and they use main phrases from your profile
  • Tenderness and sincerity make the up level of your communication and makes the connection
  • A person you like to contact so often not waste her time and ask you for any financial help but immediately if it’s possible (of course it is possible, you are a man and you can do anything just to prevent your darling from suffering)
  • WU transfer option is what you choose for a help but at least there is no end of sending: you see no money on the other side and no darling.
  • Free services (texting, chatting, messaging and translation) is what you prefer without any professional translation, using only online apps or sites
  • Bad chances for your lady to be real indeed

Ukraine, Belarus and Russia as well as Nigeria and Malaysia are the most famous countries for professional dating scam, thus people read more and more about dating crime on different forums.

In spite of all that men from all over the world still intend to have russian or ukrainian wife, no one push them to arrive to look for their beloved here. And no one is forcing them to register dating sites. Everyone has their choice.

As for Ukraine – the stamina of Ukrainian women are most attractive. They can be wonderful wives, housekeepers and business ladies as woman here can be beautiful and smart at the same time.

Virtual communication make someone’s dream closer: dating sites promise women of any kind. And for men it is better to spend some hundreds dollars sitting at home unless hanging around some unknown city in unknown country, right? Thus, I cannot say that I really see the loss of popularity of dating sites. Besides a great part of men who do not think about marriage – do that subconsciously, like a play, and then – they just enjoy that.

But indeed if you take a breath and wait and read carefully all terms and conditions about each dating site – you have to be ready for scam and fraud. This is only YOUR decision. By your wish only.

International matchmaking online should be non-free.

All together let’s think about what to pay for if non-free. At least today programmers perform so many plugins for free usage. Yep, it can be marvelous but this is all they can offer. No control and no monitoring for each action, message, contact, threaten. Each day millions of crimes happen just because no one cares, you use your site for free, so what’s the problem?

Matchmaking is a serious thing in case you take it seriously. Uadreams for example gives special document to fill to see your specific interest and to compare with any lady they interviewed.

The successful approach depends on professional assistance in every aspect: letters, messaging, video chat, video conference, phone calls, personal meeting. Regular assistance for additional need (gifts or flowers delivery), arrival help or the whole trip arrangement.

I suppose you have already seen how many advisers give you best chops and trips variants as well. However in that particular case, you need to arrange every item separately – that’s not convenient, right? Uadreams offer whole trip management, starting from the general planning, flight booking till the day of meeting (transfer, guide, restaurant, flowers, interpreter and etc.). All calculations are to be made according to your budget. They accomplish everything to your needs. This is what I call non-free. They do a great job. So pricing for being a third party is fully justified.

So what’s about scams? How do people avoid it?

Here my post is based on request according to UaDreams Scam agency or fraud system they represent. Besides I receive details, names and dates and sum of monies members spent on this site.

Day after day analyzing that I realize how much money for picturesquely sweet schemes concurring dating sites can spend. Sometimes it seems to be that all of them forget about main problem – scams and fraud and they just make business to be on the top. Or to get someone off the Olimp. But if you are attentive reader on some forums do not neglect some specific styles of the same users but signed with different names, old dates and strange letter screens (what is interesting as Uadreams has changed interface recently).

This is what i call downshifting of those ones who prefers black-wash!

Negative effects occurred of course but remember: bad reputation comes with activity, not with inactivity!

Updated

What they have to fight with scam today?

Anti-Scam Controlling Department. This is what the most expensive thing for UaDreams.com Interested?

Now I’m gonna tell you how what do they work for. As a rule females use trustful relationship to rip a man off. They know and use each personal detail to sympathize with him and to feel sorrow for him if he shares his concern. Therefore they attack with miserable situation of urgent money sending. Thus, men used to be hooked up. The main hook is personal info!

Preventive Measures:

  • Verification of all documents (passports, marriage certificates, social network or other dating site profiles) of potential female members of the site before registration
  • Monthly manual check
  • Personal interviewing
  • Details (personal address or email or any other info) exchanging prohibition until first meeting in the office of the agency. This is a guarantee and full responsibility of a real meeting to take place in each branch of the agency
  • Regular assistance of Members Support Center. Investigation of any extraordinary issue that may occur by Anti-Scam Department or Head Management.
  • Friendly-using websites with easy-working plugins for various services
  • Guilty are to be punished accordingly (staff – to be fired out, members – to be removed from the system)

Remember one more thing: you are completely wrong if you did nothing and just removed your profile. The main move – report urgently and tell everything in detail. No one can give 100% guarantee unless you help to the organization the services you use.

What about men: do they need to pay?

The year of 2016 gave good results for 64% of dating sites members, 55% liked online system to keep the contact with someone, not usually as they like to do that in real life unfortunately. 16% have negative experience, mostly scam and fraud victims.

Anyway this is a choice. You never know if you meet regular scam or fraud somewhere else except dating sphere. If you are adult educated person, you analyze and think twice before transferring money to unknown woman and then blaming the agency.

Some facts about quality of Uadreams services and pricing as well.

As I see each year Uadreams updates their policy however I don’t see any particular changes here. All is important they make prices higher after video chat option development and apps for Mac and Android updating.

I’m glad to have one feedback here, it is from Rhonny.

He emphasized that profiles that Uadreams perform are fake and he also notices some changed information there. He considered women there not to be real and employees did their job for luring men to the site and all. Besides Rhonny realized that pictures looked unreal or too photoshopped, probably they were stolen. Indeed he did not believe that Ukrainian women can be beautiful is such a way. As for the phone call – that wasn’t a lady as he considered but someone who’re working there. Testimonials were complete scam, he did not believe that happy stories. Also Rhonny mentioned a friend of his who had spent hundreds of dollars for scam, he meant no personal info were offered for this money. Uadreams refused to share any of it. To Rhonny’s mind being a member of Uadreams is total time wasting.


Such an outbursting feed back made me sad. I may agree if we focus on personal info you still do not receive if you send regular fee for communication services. But my explanation of Uadreams anti scam policy had been described carefully above… And something is disturbing me while I’m reading messages like this. Supposedly that was one of those silly report who makes money for negative content posting.


Rhonny is a strange character and he did not offered to analyze any detail (letters screenshots, voice records, pictures and etc.) of his accusations. And as you know – no arguments, no accusations.

After the events of 2014 in Ukraine, people reconsidered their budget and went accurately to minimize their wishes for entertainment. This time I noticed female registrations on dating sites increasing. But foreign men were really afraid to come to Eastern parts. This time Uadreams applied to avoid any arrival, they were honest to their members and cared about their safety. Instead men from abroad were anxious regarding this situation and strongly desired to come and help. So agency transferred some meetings into safe parts of the country. They replaced the branch in Donetsk into Dnipro, therefore there is no risk for visit. I focused on this issues and understood that Uadreams fixed their prices in 2016 according to that enormous job they did. They were fully justified.

The next story is about Ivansito, he liked communication with one Ukrainian lady on Uadreams. He estimated the quality of many services, but he was upset about video chat he hold with his lady. They were talking but the image were frozen but the time was passing. While we were investigating this issue, developers had fixed the app error and Uadreams turned money for the video chat minutes that Ivansito spent with no image and bad quality.

This made my day. I know that no agency can tell everyone that they offer perfect service with no bugs! But that is not what is important. The important thing is HOW they resolve the problem – technical or customer.

As I understood there was an issue about updating apps for different platforms. And my advice is to stop your counter while you chatting and notice that the image is freezing. Then you may verify this matter through the system by manager and money is to be refunded if there is a technical error. But it is better to save video chat minutes.

Update

I have the next letter for you from Chuck:


“Uadreams may all of us fools, this is a scam agency and my aim today to tell you the truth. I hope my review will help other to get rid of such soft spots of their lives. So my story started with one lady of an easymeeting.club or something I don’t remember exactly but the girl I liked there suddenly closed her profile and sent me her last letter that she wouldn’t be there any more and uadreams was more convenient for her. I sent her my email address to contact me directly, but she refused. I asked her phone number but failed. What’s that people? They just need us for website rate? They do not want us to contact directly thus, ok then, come here and spend some dollars for texting on site. Scam!”


Well, I can say that usually this situation we call typical. However let’s come to this post closer. What’s the main idea? Chuck does not want to use non-free platform. I wouldn’t go back to the posts above and for invitations from girls to change any website for Uadreams. About supervisors and all. I am talking about women’s safety, free services option, translation opportunity and language study of course. This is what agency apply for. Next point – scam. Female scam or male scam? The answer is simple. Here we see that a woman tries to defend herself and she REFUSED to give her phone number to unknown man. This is normal. But what about man? He said that a woman also had refused to use HIS email address for direct communication. Was he sure about this unknown woman? What if this lady IS a scammer and she was more than waiting for any piece of personal info to come in direct contact and use this info for fraud. Hey, people, think twice. And tell THANK YOU to that lady who prevented you from possible scam. Just imagine if she was fake instead of real woman of Uadreams agency. Who was the first Chuck would blame? Free platforms have no one to respond. They DO NOT take any responsibility.


I emphasize that the registration is for free, if your profile is confirmed by management, free bonuses are granted: email credit, photo credit, video chat minutes. You are able to use them and leave. That’s all. No one is pushing you to buy membership or to buy first letter credit. This effort is for free. You can even try only video chat minutes to see if lady is not fake on Uadreams.


What is more I googled some facts about Ukrainian women and their attitude to Ukrainian dating sites and you see, UaDreams has one of the best reputation as the trustful third party. Besides they understand that intimacy of international correspondence should be confidential, translators do their job carefully without interfering into letters ideas. And as I know automatic system detects any possible way of forwarding personal information as email address or phone numbers or skype names and etc. Why not if you are afraid of sex-tourist?

The difference between Russian women and Western women

And by Russian, I mean of course girls from the ex- USSR : not only Russia, but also Belarus, Ukraine, Moldova, and even Hungary or Poland. Although these countries are not exactly Russian – in fact most of them hate Russia.

So why would you date a Russian girl?

First, let me tell you about my experience. I was not born in France, and I arrived in this country when I was a teenager. I travelled extensively, from the US to Japan. I’ve been to most European countries and I have lived in more than 10 countries. Lived, means I was not a tourist there but I effectively had a house or a flat. Why is this interesting? Because I was dating a lot of women from various countries. I dated women from Japan, from all over Europe including Poland, Hungary, Italy, Sweden, England, Croatia and of course France. I dated American women from Texas, from Boston, from Portland. I dated Spanish women. I had a girlfriend from Turkey, another one from Argentina. And of course Russian and Ukrainian women. So I’m not an expert, but I dated something like 60 or 80 women during my life and I have some experience.

Well, in each country there is something different. My interest is particularly in Caucasian women. I’m not into Asian or Black women – they are beautiful and lovely but they are not my style so I have nothing to say about them, although I do know personally a few Black girls and they are great, energetic, fun. But I suspect for the husband it’s not always easy because they seem like tornadoes 😉

As time went by, I grew tired of French women, particularly. They are behaving in this kind of “modern way” that makes me mad. Why ? Well you have to look at it from an historical point of view.

Feminism, or the end of real women.

What happened in the 60′s was the movement of freedom for women. I think it was good, because obviously women did not have equal rights. In the early 20th century, French women did not have the right to vote! That’s crazy. I think men and women must absolutely have equal rights. Same salary for a similar job, same everything. This is why I don’t support the idea that women should be hidden behind some kind of veil: if a woman is to wear a veil then I think men should wear it as well.

However, men and women are not equal. They are different. That’s a very common misconception that, if you have equal rights you must be the same. It’s not true. My son has the same right to live in my house as my daughter, and they are treated with the same respect and love. But he likes sports and she likes drawing.

I treat my old Pakistani neighbor with the same respect that I treat my old Italian neighbor. But they are different. They have the same rights, however they have a different background, different ideas, different behaviors.

It’s the same with men and women. I’m not going to detail too much what makes us different, because everyone knows it. Men are physically stronger. Men are made to run, to go out and catch something to eat. Women are made to raise the children, to care about the home, to cook.

Yeah, got it, you are just the macho type.

I’m not some kind of macho. In my house, I cook, I do the dishes, I clean up the bathroom, I take the garbage can out. I share everything with my woman.

When my children from my previous marriage were born, I was giving them bath, changing nappies, feeding them with baby milk and so on, I woke up at night to take care of the baby etc. So I’m certainly not some nasty bastard who thinks women should stay at home and shut up (besides I cook better than my wife).

I love the fact that my Russian wife is intelligent, speaks 4 languages, went skydiving and rock climbing etc. It’s just that we are different, and we both know it. She likes to enjoy things in life, but she knows that ultimately I’m the man. When there is something heavy to carry, I do it. When there’s an emergency situation, I get calm and I act quickly while she freaks out.

I am different. She is different. She has good sides, and bad sides, and me too, and the truth is that we complement each other. That’s why in my opinion gay marriage does not make much sense, although everyone should have the right to marry who they want, and I wish everyone to be happy.

Russian women are real women.

Russian women know and understand this difference. They respect the man for who he is, and they respect themselves. They need a strong man, someone who is purposeful, acting, and nice at the same time.

But they are not afraid to be women. They like to be sexy, elegant, well dressed. They like high heels. They like to wear sexy lingerie. They want to be nice to their man. They will touch their husband, kiss him, give him signs of tenderness and love. They will make love with him, because they know it’s in the man’s nature, and when they don’t feel like having sex they don’t really care, because if they love the man they are willing to please him and show him that they love him. In return, he has to be a good man, I tell you, because they don’t like to give too many chances. Russian women are strong.

Girls from the West try to copy men.

On the contrary western women are making a huge confusion between feminism and power. They think that to have equal rights, they should behave like men.

Girls in Paris wear high heels and look damn sexy but once you are dating one, you’d better be prepared for hell. Demonstrations of love will be rare. You’re under the constant threat of being too much of a man. If you do something because you’re a man and this is what men do, they tell you something about it, how they dislike it. And if you don’t apologize, welcome to Guantanamo. They will reduce you into the shadow of yourself.

The truth is, they don’t really need a man, because they have been taught that to be a modern strong girl you have to be like a man. This is the most stupid idea. To be a modern strong girl you have to take everything that makes you a girl and take it to the next level. To be a modern strong girl you have to know who you are, stand up for your values, and find the things that matter for you. To be a modern strong girl you have to be educated and smart. But you never, never have to behave like a man.

Women have their own way of doing things. Their brain functions in a different way. This is why they need men, and this is why men need women. We totally need each other.

My first marriage was a failure because my wife wanted to be like a man. She was a successful businessman, but in meetings, she was acting like she’s a man. She would raise her voice, speak loudly, become mad at some guy. A real strong woman will never do that. That’s a man’s thing. A real woman will tell in a very subtle and calm manner what she has to say, it will be elegant…and devastating.

Russian women are elegant and strong.

Russian women can do this. They know exactly who they are. They know exactly what they want, what a man wants. They are ready for this. They want children. They want to share responsabilities, but they also want to feel vulnerable.

Some of them want a man who is a leader, but some want to share leadership – there are different ways. But ultimately Russian women (and again by Russian I mean also Ukrainian, Belorussian etc) are strong. They are strong but they are sexy, fragile and they are ready to love.

I totally not regret any other woman.

A Russian woman is like a dream. Your friends won’t believe how lucky you are. At least my friends don’t. Their marriage is in shatters, they are unhappy, getting fat and they think I’m lucky.

I am not lucky : I worked hard to get this. I spent hours on Elena’s Models website. I travelled to meet the girls. I spent hours skyping, chatting to find the perfect woman.

And I found her. Yes, she’s beautiful, yes she’s sexy, yes she’s 11 years younger than me, and no, I’m not lucky.

You can be happy, too.

I will never repeat this enough. You can find yourself a perfect girl, if you are ready to do what it takes. Don’t think you’re going to date a model just because you are rich and handsome. You must also be nice. I’m a man, I’m strong and confident but I’m also tender and loving. I don’t look bad and women tend to appreciate my style. But I could never find a girl like mine in the Western world.

The proof is in the pudding.

A couple months ago I was invited to a dinner in Paris. There was 4 gorgeous women, all single. The one on my right was really sexy. She was 34 years old, and she was interested in me. She gave me her phone number – I did not tell her I was married, just to see how it went.

I asked her how come she’s not with someone: good looking, successful, sexy, smart. She told me “men are scared of me”.

Can you believe that ?

I asked her why. She explained that because she has her own company, because she’s making loads of money, each time she is dating a guy he is quickly becoming afraid that he is not good enough. I told her that’s her responsibility. I told her that if she wants to be happy she has to change. I explained that if she wants a real man, she has to give that man a chance. I explained that if I was her man, I would show her who the man is. I would show her who is strong. I would show her who’s the boss in the home, regardless of what she does outside and how much money she makes.

Do you know what she told me? It was the late evening; she was a bit drunk – too much wine and champagne. She looked into my eyes, and she said “this is exactly what I need. Someone who treats me like a woman. I want to be dominated”.

The next day, she called me back.

Unfortunately Western women will admit this only when they are drunk. Russian women KNOW it. And that’s the difference.